Posted by: Matt | 18 February, 2009

Had to let my fingers dance

Thinking I’m not a great blog’er it’s truly isn’t my calling as having to rephrase sentences as for the life of me I cant get that blasted little red line under a word to go away irks me to a great extent!

I’ve I feeling someone misinterpreted a post comment of mine & I’ve upset them not what was intended but people sometimes get the wrong end of the stick might have been to do with a momentarily lack of articulation on my part or a  lot to do with it. Thought sending them mail but as they haven’t brought the subject to me best idea let it die wouldn’t want to cause further unintended offence.

Since I’ve been doing my sporadic (not sure if that’s spellings right) posts, few years now loads of blogs have come & gone. Only two bloggers have made the transition to my Facebook friends list.

1st blog a read with any sort of frequency was an Australian hooker’s blog think she livid in Sydney, then there was this funny bloke in London (a right lad) but he’s has ended my moons ago cant for the life of me remember it’s title others I’m sure might remember. Only been 3 or4 blogers I’ve wanted to meet in person one being as it’s local, another one was the aforementioned London lad. But there has only ever been one subject I’ve glanced at but never properly posted about, the stigma attached to this subject is to great for this not so anonymous blog.

I’ve changed since the person who started this blog & I intended to keep evolving beyond what time normally effects, almost beyond my programming the need to reprogram, remap my mind. I’m sure I could be a figure of fun from some certain friends if they understood how much I read on the seduction community & NLP or CBT. This community is more around self improvement then easy pick up techniques as for people like me with shattered confidences after my formative years were an epicentre of confidence undermining there are no easy solutions to confidence.

I ran into an old uni friend the other night haven’t seen her since uni, she said a nice compliment that “I had aged well”




  1. whats NLP?

  2. Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is defined in the Oxford English Dictionary as “a model of interpersonal communication chiefly concerned with the relationship between successful patterns of behaviour and the subjective experiences (esp. patterns of thought) underlying them” and “a system of alternative therapy based on this which seeks to educate people in self-awareness and effective communication, and to change their patterns of mental and emotional behaviour”

    Interesting topic, book I’m reading is more self help then outward manipulation. Business men use it & some people also say NLP patterns appear in Obama speeches.

  3. ohhh. suddenly i’m thinking of tom cruise in that movie magnolia when he’s the full on dating coach. really interesting about obama though

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